http://www.warmthonthesoul.com/articles/facebook-security-prison-doors-and-a-piece-of-string/ Using the power of hypnosis to go on a journey of discovery into your mind Sun, 04 Sep 2011 16:34:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://www.warmthonthesoul.com/articles/facebook-security-prison-doors-and-a-piece-of-string/comment-page-1/#comment-4777 Erica Tue, 08 Jun 2010 14:42:27 +0000 http://www.warmthonthesoul.com/?p=752#comment-4777 Hi Jamie, great topic, I'm not a coach so I hope you don't mind me giving feed back. Blame game and privacy - don't air your dirty laundry in public if you don't want people to see it - right? I know a few secret squirrells that are very protective over the information they allow certain people to see. As you say, who cares? Well, those secret squirrells are also particularly nosey people themselves and access info all the time on ex partners and family etc who in turn do the same to them and try to manipulate their lives. But they seem to like life that way. Maybe to them, it's a way of showing that they do care. Or maybe they have no choice. I also know someone who always left his door open to everyone, he knew alot of people who would come in and out. Sometimes things would go missing/get trashed. But that was life. It still didn't stop him from living his life this way. He is however cautious with FB due to it's voyeristic nature, and so he keeps it to a minimum. Initially it does feel a bit voyeristic as you flip through photo albums without the other person's knowledge. But that's what it's there for! If the person didn't want you to see them they woudn't be up there. There will always be perves/idiots around and it shouldn't stop you from living your life freely, however, a piece of string does seem to represent how delicate the issue of trust can be and you'd be silly not to be a little cautious, I bet there were also security guards there. The future - freedom and responsibility. Ride your skate board with a helmet, and knee and elbow pads!! Hi Jamie, great topic, I’m not a coach so I hope you don’t mind me giving feed back.
Blame game and privacy – don’t air your dirty laundry in public if you don’t want people to see it – right?
I know a few secret squirrells that are very protective over the information they allow certain people to see. As you say, who cares? Well, those secret squirrells are also particularly nosey people themselves and access info all the time on ex partners and family etc who in turn do the same to them and try to manipulate their lives. But they seem to like life that way. Maybe to them, it’s a way of showing that they do care. Or maybe they have no choice.
I also know someone who always left his door open to everyone, he knew alot of people who would come in and out. Sometimes things would go missing/get trashed. But that was life. It still didn’t stop him from living his life this way. He is however cautious with FB due to it’s voyeristic nature, and so he keeps it to a minimum. Initially it does feel a bit voyeristic as you flip through photo albums without the other person’s knowledge. But that’s what it’s there for! If the person didn’t want you to see them they woudn’t be up there. There will always be perves/idiots around and it shouldn’t stop you from living your life freely, however, a piece of string does seem to represent how delicate the issue of trust can be and you’d be silly not to be a little cautious, I bet there were also security guards there. The future – freedom and responsibility. Ride your skate board with a helmet, and knee and elbow pads!!

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